this. It is
important to find out why so that the partner who does not receive sex is not
left wondering what they have done that has turned you off to them. The cure
for such a lack of desire depends on the cause:
7. Depression: A woman experiencing depression
has sex completely off the radar. When she gets help for her depression, there
is a good chance that her sex drive will return. If the woman has had a
hysterectomy this could affect her sex drive also because she equates the
uterus with being a woman and without she feels as if she is not complete. She
also feels as if she is not as beautiful as those who can still give birth. If
the hysterectomy included the removal of her ovaries, she will also experience
early menopause. Menopause can cause all sorts of complications, especially
those related to sex drive. It is very important that she speaks to her doctor
about hormone therapy and above all realizes that her uterus is not what defines
her being a woman.
8. Childbirth: A new mom sometimes get so
emotionally tied up with her baby, not to mention so tired from lack of sleep,
that she loses interest in sex. The dad, who may have stopped having sex with
her during the last month or two of pregnancy, and who gave her the time she
needed to recover from the effects of giving birth, may begin to get testy
after several months have gone by.
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